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I hope you enjoy reading these stories and thoughts. Ryan and I have recently moved to San Marcos as members of a church plant team, to reach out to the campus of Texas State University. We love spending time with family and friends, and we are enjoying the adventure this life is taking us on. We have a lot of fun ideas and enjoy our life together. These are the gems we'd like to share with you.

Wednesday, December 2, 2009

8 Things that warm my heart

For the third day in a row now, it's been cold in Corpus Christi. By cold, I mean less than 70D. But a cold front woke me up early Monday morning when in blew in, then it rained/drizzeled allllllll day yesterday, and it was brisk today. I am hearing rumors of snow in one ear, then warm from in the other ear. I'd be okay with it just staying the same 45-65 range till March.

I'm reminded of Hot Dr. Pepper with lemon rings from my childhood, and other tricks we'd use to stay warm during the frigid winters of west Texas. Then my mind is lead to think about the things that always seem to make me feel warm and fuzzy inside. Here is a list of 8 things that warm my heart:

In no special order

1. The contrast of vibrant reds and blues when the sun sets on a kind-of cloudy day. I could sit and watch sunset after sunset. I don't know why but it captivates my attention like few things can.

2. Rest. Real rest, when all the housework and other chores are done. Sitting on the couch, leaning back, and taking a deep breath is always good. But it has a healing effect when you don't have to get right back up and do more work.

3. A good conversation. I've realized that my top love languages are quality time and words of affirmation. That's why I might hunt you down sometimes just to sit and talk with you for 3 minutes. I know I can be too talkative sometimes, but I truly enjoy listening to stories. I think staying connected to the people I interact with the most is a large priority in my life.

4. Worship and prayer. I guess it goes without saying, but when you are in the presence of God, you kind of melt. There is no greater thrill than hearing the voice of the Lord in your ear, and his breath on your face.

5. Babies. I used to not like babies. But when my sister had her first, my heart changed. Now, I kind of know what I'm missing, when I hold them and have special conversations with them, just looking eye to eye. I want my own baby, and look forward to holding him some day. (I say "him" because I think we are pretty much biologically guaranteed to have a boy.)

6. When a friend leans against me, touches my face, or plays with my hair. I think most girls like these things. It makes me feel like I'm loved, cherished, and appreciated. Who doesn't like to feel that way?

7. When I hear about people helping people. You hear so much negativity from the news, that it's rare when anything truly good is featured. I like to listen to Air 1 88.1 because most of the news is positive.

8. Pictures. I love to look through our old photos, and other people's too. Not even to enjoy a memory, but just to enjoy the faces and scenes. I feel closer to a person by seeing them in photos for some reason. My favorites are baby/childhood pics, and candid shots.

Other things that could have made the list, but were too obvious:
- My darling Ryan, when he is sweet and vulnerable.
- Food. Really good food and beverages.
- Helping someone accomplish an important goal.
- Crying or laughing with someone I love.

What warms your heart?

1 comment:

  1. Warming my cockles is always sweet. I have many many things in my life that bring me joy and comfort. Many are bittersweet but the overall feeling I am left with is warmth and love. What really warms my heart: My children. I have a special relationship with each of them. One day I may discuss it but right now all of them are too private and just between us. Special, just for us moments, even if we are in the same room with each other, all of my children can look over at me and know they are loved. Now I'm crying, thanks for that!

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